His Etiquettes in Eating
The Messenger of Allah B used to eat whatever was available.
The meal attended by a greater number of men was the most beloved to him.
Whenever he sat to eat, he used to sit similarly as he sat in prayer. He used
to say, "I am a slave. I eat like a slave, and sit like a slave." He
did not use to eat hot food. He said on this occasion: "It is less
blessed. Allah did not feed us with fire so, let it be cool." He used to
eat what was nearer to him with three fingers. He used to eat barley bread that
had been made from unsifted barley flour. He used to eat cucumber with fresh
dates using both hands. His main meal consisted of water and dried dates. He
used to eat dried dates and milk calling them the two wholesome foodstuffs.
Meat was the most beloved meal to him. He used to eat Ath-Tharid [a dish
of soaked bread, meat, and broth] with pumpkin. He loved pumpkin a great deal.
Whenever he ate meat, he did not lower his
head. He used to lift the meat to his mouth and eat from it. He used to eat
buttered bread and he liked eating the foreleg and shoulder of the ewe. He used
to prefer pumpkin from all vegetables and pressed dates. He invoked Allah Q to bless pressed dates. He said
that it is from Paradise and a medication for poison and magic. He did not use
to eat garlic, onion, or leek. He never dispraised any type of food. If he
liked it, he used to eat. If he disliked it, he used to abstain without
discouraging others to eat. He did not use to eat dabb or lizard [a kind of
reptile] and the spleen but he did not prohibit them. He used to lick the plate
saying: The leftover food is more blessed." He used to lick his fingers
after the meal. He did not dry his fingers with his handkerchief, but he used
to lick his fingers saying: "One does not know where is the blessedness of
food." He used to drink in three sips reciting Al-Basmalah and At-Tahmid
thrice.(1) He used to give the leftovers to the one sitting on his right. If
the one on the left was higher in rank, he used to say to the one on his right:
"It conforms to Sunnah to give to you. If you permit, I will give to
him." He did not use to breathe while drinking. He would serve himself
when he was having his meal or drink.
(1)
Al-Basmalah is to recite: "Bismillahir-Rahmanir-Rahim
[In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful]", and At-Tahmid
is to recite: " Al-Hamdu Lillahi Rabbil-Almin [Praise be to Allah,
Lord of all that exists]." [editor]
Reference:
Selected
Writings on Purifying the Soul, by Sa'eed Hawwa, page 532-533. (a non Ibadhi
Book)
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